For some it will also extend their emotional attachment to their softer side, where they can enjoy the relaxed fantasy world of role play. And where, for once, they are the centre of attraction, the desired woman, the femme fatale lusted after by men who desire femininity mixed with their testosterone heterosexuality and/or bisexuality.
For others, role-playing the female slut is a desirable outcome. Through internet connections I have verbally been introduced to that world of rich sexual textures by a practitioner of the art. The heady mix of male leather domination played out with a strong bisexual slutty whore male is one rarely spoken of, let alone described.
In a broad-minded second heterosexual relationship (and that's frequently important in order to live out repressed sexual deviation roles) this man is living his deepest sexual desires as a dominant male in that relationship. Mild bondage, sex toys, poppers (amyl) and role play are just some of enjoyments he and his female companion enjoy.
But there's also the flip side of the relationship - the desire to be the one dominated, to be the sissy slut, take on the traditional role of whore where dominating men don't ask, they just sexually take whatever they want - and that includes no respect for how they take it.
"I can only be a slutty sissy whore with a man that also enjoys the fantasy" he wrote to me.
"Just writing to you to let you know of my latest sex adventure. Met an older man at his place after we chatted for a few days... He enjoys younger men who are subs and enjoy being fem and sissy....it was exactly what I was looking for... He was waiting for me at his front door in a tight leather g string with a bottle of poppers for me to take...I took a few whiffs and we were right into kissing and fondling ourselves...it was wild... He ordered me to go and clean my cock and balls and pussy in front of him, he would inspect me as I soaped myself up, I would wash myself and he would smell and finger my pussy...it was quite erotic and sensual...after he was satisfied and ordered me to put on a silky sexy black lingerie set and put on a black leather collar. As I put on the lingerie, I could see his cock becoming rock hard, as I transformed into his whore.... He took hold of the leash and made me crawl towards his spare room which was actually a sling room, all it had in the centre was a black leather sling with a table full of lubes dildos and gag balls... He put a gag ball on me and proceeded to
rim me open legged on the sling, his tongue felt so good on my pussy. He expertly licked my balls leaving lots of saliva, he spat on my pussy and began opening me up....he went to the table and put a cock ring on me, my balls become so big and hard, it was wild. He put on some really sexy music and lots of erotic incense while a transexual movie played on the tv.... Mmmmm he started with a tiny vibrator then gradually moved on till he had a ribbed black one inside, felt so good as he fed me plastic and lube... I couldn't say anything accept moan thru the gag ball and dribbling all over... My cock was gushing precum all over and he knew that
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